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A creamy, cheesy au gratin of winter squash topped with crispy sage leaves. This cozy, comforting recipe is delicious served as a vegetarian main course or side dish to a roast.

I originally shared this winter squash au gratin recipe on Instagram last year. But it wasn’t until the other day that I was reminded of it again. As I scrolled through my photo archives, all it took was seeing the images of this dish to remind me of just how delicious it is and that it belongs here on the blog.

This creamy, cheesy winter squash au gratin topped with crispy sage leaves is a delicious vegetarian main course or side dish to a roast.


  • Firstly, CHOOSE SMALLER WINTER SQUASH. Smaller varieties are easier to work than large winter squash varieties. Butternut, delicata, baby blue hubbard, honeynut, and kabocha squash are some of our favorite small varieties.For this recipe, I use a combination of honeynut, kabocha & delicata squash, but feel free to use whatever varieties you can source.
  • Secondly, USE A FLAVORFUL CHEESE. The main ingredients of this recipe are winter squash & cheese. So, choosing the right cheese is integral to the recipe’s outcome. Choose a rich, nutty cheese like Gouda or Gruyère to compliment the sweet, earthy flavor of the winter squash.
  • Finally, don’t skip the CRISPY SAGE LEAVES. Traditional au gratin is usually topped with cheese and/or breadcrumbs. But, since the filling of this au gratin has lots of cheese, I opted for crispy sage leaves instead of bread crumbs. They add incredible flavor & texture, but they also allow the beauty of the squash to really shine.
This creamy, cheesy winter squash au gratin topped with crispy sage leaves is a delicious vegetarian main course or side dish to a roast.


Not right now at least. And not because this winter squash au gratin isn’t worth sharing, but just because I’m feeling sad. And I’ve cried a lot over the last few days. With Thanksgiving and the holiday season upon us I find myself feeling a deep nostalgia laced with sorrow. Images of people gathering with family are a painful reminder of the family we have lost. Many years ago, my husband and I chose to protect our peace over attending obligatory family gatherings. But this year, we lost the only close family that we had left. My husband’s parents – the ones that we left our life in Greece behind for. And now we find ourselves painfully estranged from them both.

I share my feelings with you not for pity’s sake or to summon condolences. But, rather, to normalize being sad. Because I believe that every emotion is worth sharing. For how can we know the sweetness of life without also knowing the pain of sadness? Life, after all, is like a set of scales slowly tipping back and forth between joy and sorrow. However, our modern world revolves around a relentless pursuit of happiness, excitement, and pleasure, in total protest to sorrow. But knowing true contentment is only possible when one fully embraces the entire human experience. Which includes feeling sadness, loneliness and despair. And since our culture hasn’t normalized sharing these difficult emotions, most people don’t know how to empathize with them.

This creamy, cheesy winter squash au gratin topped with crispy sage leaves is a delicious vegetarian main course or side dish to a roast.


As a result, we aren’t comfortable with embracing other people’s suffering. So we respond to it with words of encouragement and hopeful proclamations of impending improvement. We may try to pass this off as helpful, but to the those suffering, it feels dismissive. An offering of positivity feels more like a shield against allowing someone else’s darkness touch you. But empathy, in fact, is the complete opposite of this. Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. And because abilities are earned, I choose to embrace sadness. For it is only in embracing it that I will earn the ability to know it, understand it, and share in it with another. That being said, I feel honored to finally share this winter squash au gratin recipe along with these words. In hopes that both will comfort anyone that stumbles upon this post.

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  • Lori November 24, 2021, 9:45 am

    My sweet friend. This post- not only the recipe but your words touch me deeply. Big hugs to you and I so empathize and also understand exactly how you are feeling & it is so difficult when people mean well, but simply don’t always know what to say or do- so it does come off as dismissive and in some cases toxic positivity. Feeling our feelings is SO important- to sit with them, to understand where they come from- to give them a place. I am a firm believer that it is through embracing the moments for what they are- including those which hurt – allow us to appreciate the little things even more.

    Love you. Give yourself all the time to feel & know that you are not alone. I’m never far ❤️

    • bella | ful-filled November 24, 2021, 11:59 am

      Oh Lori, your words mean so much to me. I am truly grateful for your heart, your continual support and your friendship. Thankful for you my friend, thank you for echoing my sentiments and for always being here for me. Love you!

  • Kathy Appleba November 25, 2021, 12:28 pm

    I stopped scrolling the beautiful food photos, stayed for the lovely words, including the comments. I cried. Thank you both.

    • bella | ful-filled November 28, 2021, 8:43 pm

      Awwww, your comment touched my heart. I am very humbled and truly grateful that you came upon this post Kathy. Sending you love <3

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